You CAN figure it out!

Me at my local swimming beach

Hello Beautiful Soul,

As I sit here today in reflection of the last few years, I certainly have been on a very big journey. When I think about sharing that journey, I hope of helping even just one person feel a little less alone and feel a little more seen. And, maybe eventually a little more themselves, know they are enough and they are beautiful just as they are. Maybe that one person is you…

I wonder where to start, then I remember I already have started with my website and my other blog posts… and it really doesn’t matter as the right parts of my story will reach the right people at exactly the right moment. I choose to lean into that trust and if you are reading this right now, I hope something I share helps you along your own journey.

Just as life is messy, my story is messy as I am sure you can relate. I am so grateful you are spending your precious time with me today and reading what I have to share. Enough rambling… here is want I want to share with you today.

No matter how messy life gets and deep you feel you may be in the mess, you can find your way forward, I truly believe that you can figure it out.

When I separated from my husband back in mid-2021, which feels like a lifetime ago, yet really is not even 5 years ago. I had no idea how I was going to manage as a single mum on a part-time income, I struggled to get a rental as my income was not enough, I had to really budget to ensure we had enough food for the week and then I needed to work with a lawyer to move forward with a financial settlement. Each step along the way, I had days where I had no idea how I was going to get through it, but at the same time I decided that I would figure it out. One step at a time, one foot in front of the next and one day at a time.

Once my financial settlement was finalized, I was very grateful to be able to buy a small apartment for me and my girls to live in (January 2022). You might think as this point I had it all figured out, I can say hand on heart, honestly I did not. I remember many occasion, my mum asking me a question of how I will do xyz… I clearly remember my default response became – “I don’t know, but I will figure it out” and let me tell you, figure it out I did.

Along the way, I learnt that resilience is not always about strength and putting on a brave face. To me resilience is feeling lost, uncertain and full of fear or anxiety, and at the same time being your own advocate, making the choices and figuring it out.

Fast forward 4 years, a great love story which I have shared some of in my previous posts… and I SO grateful to share I am sitting in my office, in my home which I purchased with my wife to be over a year ago and we are 450m from the beach. So not only did I figure it out, together we manifested a beautiful home near the ocean. The Ocean nourishes my soul and to be able to live walking distance to the beach is like living in a dream for me. The only way this would be better is if I could see the beach from my home. We don’t like in a big lavish house, but a comfy home that is just right for us in a truly beautiful part of the world.

So dear soul, if you have feel stuck, or up to the eye-balls in the messiness of life please know that you have all the resources within you, you can figure it out and you can choose to move forward. You are worthy and you are enough just as you are.

Trust yourself dear soul, lean into the messy and know in your heart of hearts that you can figure it out. If you slow down and listen to your inner wisdom, you know how to move forward with determination.

But, if you need a little support along the messy journey of life and are ready to figure it out, but not sure where to start or struggling with self-worth and self-belief that is holding you stuck. Let’s talk!

Perfect morning at my local beach

I am excited to be stepping into coaching and working with clients just like you in the next few months, if you would like to be the first to know when I open my books and to take advantage of my super special Introductory offer, email me: peta@dragonflymagic.com.au.

May you find some beauty and joy today, no matter how messy it all feels!

Blessings,

Peta